some sound WOMANLY "advice" ; )

"Your man clearly loves your frosty public persona, 

but TRUST, he wants a “nasty bitch” in the 

bedroom…"

~ViA A MUST READ: HOODRAT SEX 101

Jim Jones is CRAZY...but I LIKE IT!

WATCH THE VIDEO FIRST....

Now...was Jim Jones overboard or WHAT?!

I think this episode was the best YET this season, even though they've only aired like 3 so far LoL

I understand taking up for your lady, but DAAAAAAMN!

His rant reminded me of like the mafia/mob type stuff...I was NOT ready lol..my jaw was dropped the WHOLE time.  Chrissy knew what she was doing when she told Jim over the phone, acting all surprised when he started going crazy over the phone...GIIIIRL PLEASE!

I really felt bad for Somaya's manager, little Tatu lookin' guy..I REALLY THINK he was TERRIFIED for his life, BUT he shouldn't have said what he said about Chrissy, and THEN he said it to one of her friends, Olivia, and he should've known DAMN WELL she was gonna run RIGHT BACK to Chrissy and tell her QUICK, FAST, & IN A HURRY!

DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUH!

On a much brighter note, Jim looked GOOD in that fitted cap, that white tee & those jeans..with bow-legged ass, HMPH...LOVE IT!

I can't even lie, I used to think he just looked DIRTY, and he smelled, and his hair always looks disheveled, BUT NOW I can get past ALL of that, he can GET IT...that tough exterior, it just turns me ON!

*fanning myself* HEHEHEHE

Jennifer Hudson in Herve Leger on 106 & Park

the beautiful Jennifer Hudson showed up on BET's 106 & Park yesterday looking just as slim & trim as she wants to be, SO proud of her, she's DEFINITELY an inspiration to me...now the SUBJECT AT HAND is what she was wearing.  My first reaction when I saw the dress, Herve Leger by Max Azria, was "eh", I just was NOT feeling it.  It looked very elementary, very pre-schoolish, little ballerina.  Now the SHOES, she DID THAT with the "Chrissy Lous", she gotta WORK IT to wear that shoe!  

So what do Y'ALL think..."YOU GO GIRL!" or "OH NO BOO!"?

MY Thoughts: Chris Brown's HIGHLY ANTICIPATED "F.A.M.E."

after my 1st listen....LOOOOOVE IT!  I mean I'm listening to it AS I blog, "Beautiful People", just ONE of my faves LoL!  Today has been a VERY exciting day for Chris Breezy (I mean besides the supposed blowup in his dressing room at Good Morning America...which I DO believe he had a reason to react like that!) & his OH-SO-LOYAL fans...SO many people have been waiting on this AWESOME day of March 22nd, we missed good ol' Chris, HE'S BAAAACK with F.A.M.E (Forgiving All My Enemies) !

I mean, I'VE had the CD for a good week or so already, SSSSSSSSHHHHH don't tell anybody, and I could NOT stop listening to it, it STAYED on repeat on the iPod!  It has such variety, so many different sounds, so many different rhythms, so many different beats, just here, there, and EVERYWHERE...I HONESTLY anticipated the next song before the current song was even close to over LoL!  

Starting with my FIRST fave, "Beautiful People"...this song REALLY gets me going in the morning, it wakes me ALL the way up, fist-pumping like a maniac in the car, FOR REAL! Check out the video below, I was TOO excited when I saw that Global Grind posted it:

THEEEEEEN, there's "Oh My Love"...when that beat dropped, I already KNEW I was gonna like it. It goes from hip-hop, to techno, then back again, then slows down during each verse, LOVE IT, especially the hook

NEXT is "Rock, Paper, Scissors"...it's CUTE, very flirtatious, I see the video being something like a pretty girl making him chase her, they have a connection, smiling at each other...that's just me lol

AND THEN I fell in love with, "She Ain't You"....I relate to this, but then again, I'm thinking about all of my exes, and THEM saying it hehehehehe lol...and then the BEST thing is, he uses that Michael Jackson/SWV sample, talk about HOTT!!

This song is right up there with "Beautiful People" for me..

Last but DAMN SURE not least, "Wet The Bed" Ft. Ludacris...now y'all KNOW Chris couldn't do it WITHOUT a "freak like me" song LoL...and I loves it!I mean, look at the damn title, right to the POINT! I likes that....and like I ALWAYS say, Chris can GET IT!

After listening to it OVER and OVER again...my OVERALL rating: A : 

Y'all go ahead and get that "F.A.M.E.", you will NOT be disappointed!

In Honor of Halloween...

yes, I KNOW it's like 11:52 AM right now, and I should have done this post WAAAAAY before Halloween, BUT I'm sitting here watching "Candyman" and I wanted to blog about it....so PLEASE join in on the convo.

Have you ever?  I mean have you EVER been at him, with your friends, bored, young, and wanted to do something silly, like "I Dare You?"

Well I know my cousins and I ALWAYS dared each other to go in the bathroom, turn out the lights, 

and either say 5 TIMES, "Candyman" OR "Bloody Mary"...

Now ME, I never did EITHER?! I mean even if they say it's FAKE, I don't care to find out.

Next thing you know someone shows up behind me ready to slice & dice my ass LoL!

OH NO MA'AM and NO SIR!

I can't even lie...i LOVE the movie "Candyman", it's a CLASSIC!

BUT, I do NOT want to find out if he really does come for you if you say his name 5 times...

I'LL PASS...THANKS!

LOOK & LISTEN! New Music Videos!

Diddy FT. Dirty Money & Drake


OK, Rick Ross & Diddy with the talking in the beginning?! Didn't need it LoL!
And Diddy...WHY do you have that grill on your bottom teeth?! Answer me THAT
The subject of he video, loving someone so much that you forget to love yourself, that's real.
Dirty Money sounds REALLY good, this IS a CERTIFIED iPod repeater...that piano in the
background, the high notes, I'm feelin' it.  I see Diddy LOVES to show his emotional side.
Side Note: I KNOW y'all saw that good ol' Ciroc (I still havent tried the coconut kind)


Nicki Minaj - Right Thru Me


FIRST OFF....I HATE that hair on Nicki, EEEEWWWW!
i love my girl Nicki regardless, but it's just funny to see her acting so wifey type/serious LoL
FOR REAL though, I am digging the serious, softer, not so "Barbie-ish" side of Nicki
it's cool...
OMG, her HIPS in the shot where they show her silhouette walking through the steam...LAWD!

Her album "PINK FRIDAY" drops NOVEMBER 22ND, I can't WAIT

Amerie is now a BLONDIE!

Ok, so the picture says it ALL...I'm her BIGGEST fan y'all, but IDK about this look!

Ms. Amerie was in Dallas last night, at Partychaser's Black Affair, and this is what she came with.

She's STILL gorgeous, don't get me wrong, but what a DRASTIC change, & so sudden...

I guess every celebrity has to take the blonde road AT LEAST once *shrugs*

Do y'all like it?!

via

Lebron to Savannah: "Here's $25 MILLION boo...SSSSHHHH!"

So, my "gasping news" for the week...
"King James" will pay his girlfriend/baby mamma
$25 MILLION to keep her mouth SHUT to the public if they EVER break up (Lord forbid)!  And to my knowledge, well what I believe, I don't THINK that includes child support (TWO kids).  It is in fact MUCH BETTER than giving her half.

When I first heard this, the FIRST thing that popped in my head was "What does Mr. James have to hide?!' *side eye*
Or maybe IF they DO break up, I wouldn't be surprised if she became that bitter, angry, black woman who would spill ALL of their "family secrets" in some TELL-ALL book...

What do Y'ALL think? Would you accept this "agreement"?

I want YOU to say this to ME...

"AMBITIOUS GIRL"
Ambitious girl, the drive-drive me crazy 
I'm tryna stay with you, lay with you 
I'll pay you tuition, pray with you if you ain't intuition 
I'm tryna fuck the shit out your aspirations 
See, the last one I dated, I hated 
We wake up, I go to work, she leave out 
Come back with some make up, high heels, and a purse, or 
Worse I ask, "Babygirl, what you aspire to be?" 
She reply to me like, "why you perspiring me?" bitch.. 
Pardon me if I'm sweating you but, 
I wanna see something else in you before I invest in you 
Ambitious girl, (what you sitting for) 
I'd rather you tell me to hit you later, 
Because you gotta finish a paper 
Then to be in my face asking for a rosea cup 
See these bitches can't cut in yo business 
I'm in love with your business 
And your productivity is the reason I interest, ambitious girl 
See, I like the person that you are, 
But I'm in love with the person that you have potential to be 
And all your dreams sharing with me 
And your secrets baring with me 
And the flaws, you ain't even got to mention to me, 
Ambitious girl, you just wanna win, and you'd rather chase your dreams, 
Then to try to chase these men 
That try to chase these skirts 
That try to chase these shots with flavors that not even as sweet as her 
My ambitious girl, I wont forget you, 
I just reflect on how I ain't met you, yet boo 
You somewhere, getting your life in order 
So for the time being, I hope this (overscribe) might support her 
Support her, or work her, she worth it 





I LOVE Wale

thoughts I love...

"The same way you got him, is the same way he'll leave


 you.  Home wrecking, cheating etc."


"If he wants you nothing will stop him. If he doesn't want you nothing will change that!"

"Sometimes, two people have to fall apart to realize how 

much they need to fall back together."

  

"There's always that one person that we can never let go and the one who's worth our tears."

"Eat, Pray, Love" JUST BEAUTIFUL!

I was over at Ms. Lily's spot this morning, BLEED FOR FASHION, and she had one of the most beautiful, honest, & true posts about your "SOUL MATE"...it truly did touch me, i LOVED IT!

"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave. And thank God for it." - Eat, Pray, Love, p. 149

I can't WAIT to see that movie...i LOVE Julia Roberts, and the movie looks SO uplifting and joyous and fun!

i miss you

“I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when I lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with eachother; for those were some of the best times of my life.”


via

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just a few words...

so @ihatequotes, I follow them on Twitter (follow me @ChayChay28) and the words spoken by "them" are freakin' AWESOME! I "Favorite" and ReTweet damn near EVERYTHING they Tweet...it's just all so REAL and TRUE! here's a little sample:

  

Its not that difficult: "Find, court, commit, love and respect your mate.. Checkmate!" -@Hasenpfefferinc


"Love isn't blind. Love has 2 beautiful eyes that see the diamond in a person that others may not see."


"Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important." -Carl Reiner


"Sometimes it is the person closest to us who must travel the furthest distance to be our friend." -Robert Brault

"Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in an eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand - and melting like a snowflake." 
~ Marie Beyon Ray

The "King" of Miami now...

SO....were YOU sitting in front of the TV, watching like a HAWK, to see where "King James" would go?! I mean I NEVER thought it would be THIS MUCH hype!  To the Miami Heat he went...how did YOU feel? I mean we ALL know how the city of Cleveland felt, LOL! That was BANANAS!  I have NEVER seen such emotion over ONE young man's decision for HIS life!

He is YOUNG, Miami is PERFECT for him, young atmosphere, fun people, the vibe is AWESOME... there is NOTHING in Cleveland, but well HIM LoL!  And now, he is GONE! "CRY ME A RIVER" Cleveland! It'll be O-K! SO...did Y'ALL think he would end up in Miami? Where did Y'ALL think he would go? LET ME KNOW...  

MY NEWEST ADDITION TO THE BLOG FAMILY!!!!

so......I started something new y'all!!!!

I'm a VIDEO BLOGGER NOW!!!!


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that's how it'll be sometimes...

"Sucks when the person you want 

doesn't want you back. 

Or they do want you, 

but they can't commit to you."

my girl Ms. Lily was speakin' it on Twitter...

Follow her @bleedforfashion

LOVE her www.bleedforfashion.com

That "Couple" showing "Love"

So what do Y'ALL think?!

I mean, I'm not OK with the situation AT ALL with Swizzy & Alicia.  And y'all PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong...First, "Ms. Independent", "Ms. I Am Woman" Alicia comes in between a MARRIED couple, Mashonda & Swizzy, NOT COOL! Then not only are Swizzy & Alicia seen in public together BEFORE the divorce is final, it's MORE than PDA....Alicia gets PREGNANT (see video above) 4 months along as a matter of fact.  To ME, that's just dirty!  I feel like, if you look up HOME-WRECKER in the dictionary...there is Alicia with a big smile on her face, giving the thumbs up LOL!  PLEEEEASE tell me if I'm wrong, I enjoy a great conversation/debate, it's all in GOOD FUN ladies & gents!