Jim Jones is CRAZY...but I LIKE IT!

WATCH THE VIDEO FIRST....

Now...was Jim Jones overboard or WHAT?!

I think this episode was the best YET this season, even though they've only aired like 3 so far LoL

I understand taking up for your lady, but DAAAAAAMN!

His rant reminded me of like the mafia/mob type stuff...I was NOT ready lol..my jaw was dropped the WHOLE time.  Chrissy knew what she was doing when she told Jim over the phone, acting all surprised when he started going crazy over the phone...GIIIIRL PLEASE!

I really felt bad for Somaya's manager, little Tatu lookin' guy..I REALLY THINK he was TERRIFIED for his life, BUT he shouldn't have said what he said about Chrissy, and THEN he said it to one of her friends, Olivia, and he should've known DAMN WELL she was gonna run RIGHT BACK to Chrissy and tell her QUICK, FAST, & IN A HURRY!

DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUH!

On a much brighter note, Jim looked GOOD in that fitted cap, that white tee & those jeans..with bow-legged ass, HMPH...LOVE IT!

I can't even lie, I used to think he just looked DIRTY, and he smelled, and his hair always looks disheveled, BUT NOW I can get past ALL of that, he can GET IT...that tough exterior, it just turns me ON!

*fanning myself* HEHEHEHE

"Love Language....Urban Edition"

this is SO cute...
In my dreams, this is how I meet the love of my life :) 

the handsome young man IN the video is my boy Emu

Follow him on Twitter @EmuDCoolestNerd, he's one of the cool kids

I COULD do "Something New"

David Beckham: it's something about that shaved head & that stare of his...so CLEAN CUT

Mark Wahlberg: I LOVED him in "Fear"...with his CRAZY ass, & that SMILE *smh*

Paul Walker: those baby blue eyes are GORGEOUS & he always has that "boy next door" look, SO INNOCENT

Ryan Reynolds: a sense of humor, those tiny dimples, AND that 6-pack?! OH YES...I LIKES!

My Two FAVORITE Italian Men....LOVE Jersey Shore

 

Pauly & Vinny....two cuties, well no, HOTTIES, in my book ; )

Forget a Ronnie or a Mike "The Situation"...they are WACK to me, ESPECIALLY Ronnie, UGH!

These two...they're so sweet, and sensitive, and still manly & masculine at the same time...

and their smiles, I absolutely ADORE!!!

Do you ladies AGREE with me?!

COME ON!

Ode to my ex....SORTA

Here's a little story I've gotta tell
'Bout this boy I know so well
Back in the day was cool and all
Fell in love, I fell in love
Thought he was the one for me
Other boys I could not see
And look what happened to our love
I'm like how could it be?

It should have been me and you
It could have been you and me
But boy you broke my heart and now I'm standing there
It should have been me and you
It could have been you and me
Now all I got are these photographs

All I've got, all I've got
All I've got are these photographs
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you

Now baby it's killing me
I'm saying it's killing me
The fact that you ain't around
Baby I'm falling down
I need me a remedy
Been looking for remedies
I need you to be around
Baby I'm hurting now
I know you're a better man
When I was your girl
This land is a better land
When you're in my world
Today will be better babe
If it were like yesterday
So happy and lovely hey, hey, hey

All I've got, all I've got
All I've got are these photographs
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you, you, you

Got nothing without you

All I've got are these photographs
I remember when I used to make you laugh
I don't wanna be stuck in the past
But you're all that I have that I had
And I don't wanna lose what we built this far
This is me and you, you're my superstar
I'd give anything, baby here's my heart
My heart, my heart

(Will.i.am)
My heart don't stop, my heart be beating over
My loving never stop, even though that it's over
Girl I've been reminiscing when I play that Casanova
Way back when we was kissing on your grand-mama's sofa
Girl I got us lovey dovey o my photo album
I got them pictures back when I was rocking Calvin Klein
You had your GUESS jeans on looking sexy, oh no
Girl why could it not be the one?

Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't I be the one?
Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't you be the one?
Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't you be the one?
Why? Why? Why?

All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you,
Is nothing without you, you, you,
Is nothing without you

All I've got, is nothing without...

All I've got, is nothing without...

All I've got, all I've got are these photographs...

but....I'm OK people, I'm HAPPY lol : )

75 Lessons That MUST Be Learned In Relationships !!!

If a man wants u, nothing can keep him away.  If he doesn't want u, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Don't force an attraction. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that? Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince. Always put yourself and your happiness first. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested. Be honest and upfront. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on). If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom). There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them...get out. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself -- double-standard. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you! Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go. Actions speak louder than words. Never let a man define who you are. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the No.1 person in your life. Love is a verb ... Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it. Never become your man's "therapist". When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. Never move into his mother's house. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone. Never co-sign for a man. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you. Never let a man mess up your credit. When it's time to let go; let go. Good men should be treated like good men. Don't play games. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Compatibility in educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, are important. Never date a guy who wears color contact lens. FUNNIEST ONE!

MY Guilty Pleasure: a MAN in a WHITE TEE!

a FINE man at that! It just does SOMETHING, something GOOD to me...SIMPLE and SEXY!

and a pair of dark denim jeans doesn't hurt EITHER *smh* LOVE IT!

for my MEN...didn't forget y'all

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*shrugs*...TRUE or No? LoL

"WHY Cheat?"....VERY good question

"Here's what I don't seem to understand. Why would you be in a relationship if you're just gonna cheat? Cheating while you're in a relationship is a clear indication of greed, selfishness and un-satisfaction. I mean that's really what it breaks down to. If you are gonna feel like that why even bother. Especially if you just wanna sex the other person up. It's not right for the other person if they are GENUINELY affectionate for you. And the crazy part is that being faithful is the EASY part in a relationship. Cheating is the HARD part requiring all the work. Think about it. Cheating requires lies, sneaking, paranoia of being caught, denial, coming up with phony stories about activities and all kinds of different nonsense. If you ask me, that is doing THE MOST. Being faithful requires none of that UNNECESSARY bullsh*t. Just love your significant other and live your life. Drama in relationships only happens when you create it for yourself. If you are just gonna tell somebody you're their "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" just to sex them up, you have issues. Just be real and upfront with your intentions to hump instead of creating later issues. Or JUST BREAK IT OFF!! Its better for your health. But hey, some people like that thrill of being caught up and being sneaky. If you ask me, those people have issues..."

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GREAT read....thoughts right on point, I'm sure A LOT of people think this ALL the time *smh*

it's the truth...let's be REAL

 "A Player takes one of your nights, A Real Man gives you every morning."

Quincy Jones Ft. Akon - Strawberry Letter 23

Do y'all remember the ORIGINAL by Tevin Campbell?!

I had the BIGGEST crush on him when I was younger *blushing*...

gotta love that man...& his white tee!

love that man! by Smalls2234 featuring APC jeans

LADIES LISTEN!

"Ladies love yourself!  

If he's dumb enough to walk away...

be smart enough to let him go!"

"When you Love Yourself 

you'll always wake up with someone you Love!"

Dear Future Husband...

whoever OR wherever you may be...you were a #TT (Trending Topic) on Twitter today and I LOVED it! Everything from what I want and need to what you'll get, deserve & need.  It entertained me for a GOOD hour or two, because HEY, I want nothing but the best, and that's what I think I deserve.  There were some REALLY good ones from a FEW GOOD men on Twitter, that I HAD to retweet.  I took note, TRUST! What do YOU want to tell your future wife/husband?  Here are a FEW that caught my eye:

#Dearfuturewifes your ♥ should be so hidden in God, that a man has to seek him to find you


#dearfuturehusband our business is ours. What happens in our home stays there, dont tell the pastor, ur boys, & ur fam!


#dearfuturehusband please make sure u keep ur credit report clean now so we dont have problems getting that home together


#dearfuturewife my family is full of assholes! don't be weak! my mama will decide yo future in dis family!


#DearFutureWomanTryingToBeWife what u won't do, the woman next to u will...<-true true.


#dearfuturehusband I want a best friend as well as lover. I need to know you will be there for me.


#dearfuturehusband please be advised I'm gonna spoil you every chance I get


#dearfuturehusband I wonder...do I know you? Have we met? are u saying #dearfuturewife to me?


#dearfuturehusband I never settle for less...only the BEST. Material things are not a big deal to me, just looooove me!


#dearfuturehusband Actions speak louder than words...SHOW ME


#dearfuturehusband we came into it TOGETHER...we'll get through it TOGETHER


#dearfuturehusband I REFUSE for us to go to sleep angry at each other...I won't have it. Let's get this straight RIGHT NOW boo!


 #dearfuturewife if you love you, ill love you...communication and dedication is the key.<-SAY THAT!


#dearfuturehusband #mm "Let Me Cater 2 U"...."whatchu wanna eat boo? Let me feed U. Let me run ur bath water, whatever u desire I'll aspire"


#dearfuturehusband "Happy wife, happy life" SIMPLE AS THAT ☺


These were just a FEW....one of my FAVE #TT in a while!

BOYS will be BOYS

ok, so I'm not a Kobe Bryant fan AT ALL....but I'm DEFINITELY on his side this time.

This guy Barnes is just LAME! He was just LOOKING for a fight, LOOKING for a call against Kobe.

And one he "faked" the ball at Kobe & Kobe didn't even FLINCH....A BEAST lmao!

shiny shoes for Men Spring 2010

would YOUR MAN wear these?!

Mr. Christian Louboutin's Freddy Flats have a bit of a twist to them...I mean they're not your average square-toe or penny loafer, LoL! Those spikes are PRETTY edgy, I must say....who ALREADY picked up a pair?

Mr. Pharrell Williams...I'm not surprised, LoL!

And Michael Kors Capote Flats on the left, tan with the bit of silver, I'm just NOT really feelin' either one of them, LOL!

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love...it does this, it hurts

how I feel now.....

how I NEVER want to feel...

I sit & cry, and cry, and cry....but I shouldn't be crying, I really shouldn't.

it happens to often to where I start to question & think maybe I DID something wrong.

I know it should NEVER come to this, EVER!

I mean our love is SO deep, I know it is, so does he, or else I wouldn't be feeling this way.

I just don't get it, I'm supposed to be the one he can come to for anything.

I'm supposed to be the one he can open up to...

BUT I'M NOT! WHY?!

I'm not like the "others", I won't do him dirty, I appreciate a good man, & that's what he is.

The questioning in our relationship should be GONE out the window.

I'm to the point where I will do WHATEVER it takes to keep him, to SHOW him this is REAL!

This is not like your past boo!  Wake up and SEE THIS!

I don't do what I do for you because I HAVE to, I do it, from the heart, because I LOVE YOU!

We may be 600+ miles away, but WHO GIVES a damn!

That's our test, that's what's supposed to keep us strong.

Don't they say, "Patience is a virtue"? Or "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"?!

Hear me babe when I say, I LOVE YOU!

Stop pushing me away, I am hear for YOU, for US!

I wish you would see that!

I can't deal with another broken heart, I just can't....

All I ask you to do is LOVE ME!

LOVE ME like in the beginning and do it all the time.

you need me....I need you...and YOU know it.

love "Hunny"

it's something about him

  

   

Mr. PhaRrElL wiLLiAms

his chiseled chin

strong bone structure

his daring, suave, sharp sense of style

one of the COOLEST rappers

his shoe game...so "Skateboard P"

It's Chris' turn AGAIN to speak

Now that Rihanna has spoken out about the dramatic fight between her & ex-boyfriend Chris Brown, & their relationship, Chris has decided to speak out, and when I say speak out, I mean more than "I was like "WoW"" OR "..at the end of the day..."  He will be sitting down with Robin Roberts on 20/20, Friday, December 4th @ 10/9PM CST to discuss in further detail his thoughts on what went on that night between him & Rihanna & more..DON'T MISS IT! LOVE YOU CHRIS!

check out a CLIP of what to expect...