my boo Trey Songz sets the record STRAIGHT

If you haven't heard it yet, you're missing out BIG TIME!


So, Drizzy Drake has been coming pretty hard on the emotional tip with his latest singles, Trust Issues, Marvin's Room, & his most recent one, Headlines....


Weeeell, looks like he's given OTHER artists a gateway and they're speaking their mind too, letting it all out, and I love it! I'm the type of music person that LOVES emotion.  Personally, I like when Drake sings, I like when he gets R&B on us, shows his soft side.

I'm a HUGE fan of Trey Songz, how he drips sex & sexy, and he's straight to the point with his vulgarity, YES!  This time around, he's speaking on ANY and ALL rumors that happen to be floating around about him....sets the record STRAIGHT (no pun intended) to Drake's "Headlines"...

Take a listen:



"Say I'm engaged on the internet, they're lyin'" (engagement rumors to Lauren London)
"Plus i stay up in some pu**y, tryna say a ni**a gay" (rumors that he's gay)
"Keep my d**k up in ya mouth, so it's f**k whatchu say" (tellin' EVERYBODY to STFU about him, leave him BE!)
"It's a movie, it's a massacre, and I'm bout to be Leatherface" (he's gonna be starring as the male lead in 2012's Texas Chainsaw Massacre 3D)

I like how he topped it off with ... "It's Trey hoe! (I guess he tooooold us....)

some sound WOMANLY "advice" ; )

"Your man clearly loves your frosty public persona, 

but TRUST, he wants a “nasty bitch” in the 

bedroom…"

~ViA A MUST READ: HOODRAT SEX 101

aaawww.

i love you

I want YOU to say this to ME...

"AMBITIOUS GIRL"
Ambitious girl, the drive-drive me crazy 
I'm tryna stay with you, lay with you 
I'll pay you tuition, pray with you if you ain't intuition 
I'm tryna fuck the shit out your aspirations 
See, the last one I dated, I hated 
We wake up, I go to work, she leave out 
Come back with some make up, high heels, and a purse, or 
Worse I ask, "Babygirl, what you aspire to be?" 
She reply to me like, "why you perspiring me?" bitch.. 
Pardon me if I'm sweating you but, 
I wanna see something else in you before I invest in you 
Ambitious girl, (what you sitting for) 
I'd rather you tell me to hit you later, 
Because you gotta finish a paper 
Then to be in my face asking for a rosea cup 
See these bitches can't cut in yo business 
I'm in love with your business 
And your productivity is the reason I interest, ambitious girl 
See, I like the person that you are, 
But I'm in love with the person that you have potential to be 
And all your dreams sharing with me 
And your secrets baring with me 
And the flaws, you ain't even got to mention to me, 
Ambitious girl, you just wanna win, and you'd rather chase your dreams, 
Then to try to chase these men 
That try to chase these skirts 
That try to chase these shots with flavors that not even as sweet as her 
My ambitious girl, I wont forget you, 
I just reflect on how I ain't met you, yet boo 
You somewhere, getting your life in order 
So for the time being, I hope this (overscribe) might support her 
Support her, or work her, she worth it 





I LOVE Wale

HE Is All You Need...HALLELUJAH!

just a few words...

so @ihatequotes, I follow them on Twitter (follow me @ChayChay28) and the words spoken by "them" are freakin' AWESOME! I "Favorite" and ReTweet damn near EVERYTHING they Tweet...it's just all so REAL and TRUE! here's a little sample:

  

Its not that difficult: "Find, court, commit, love and respect your mate.. Checkmate!" -@Hasenpfefferinc


"Love isn't blind. Love has 2 beautiful eyes that see the diamond in a person that others may not see."


"Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important." -Carl Reiner


"Sometimes it is the person closest to us who must travel the furthest distance to be our friend." -Robert Brault

LADIES LISTEN!

"Ladies love yourself!  

If he's dumb enough to walk away...

be smart enough to let him go!"

"When you Love Yourself 

you'll always wake up with someone you Love!"

love ALL around...

STAYS on repeat in "Sexy Black" (my car, baby)

Usher....Mars Vs.Venus (Raymond v Raymond)

Ladies... when a "man" treats u like less than what u are, 

it's because he's wondering why you're with him because you're too good for him.

When you let go & they dont come back, it wasnt meant to be. 

When you let go & they do, it was. Either way you have to let go!

The Lord will make perfect those things which concern me - Psalms 138:8

To have my body, you must first have my heart!

she's tellin' the truth

My girl Nicole A.K.A. @Nikkyface over at TASTELESS DIAMONDS had some "encouraging" words...

"No point in sittin' at the table when he's bringin' nothin' to it."

PREACH!

f**k a perfect

"Nothing is perfect if judgment is present. 

Everything is perfect when you let go -

this is how you see with the eyes of love."

my @thedailylove from TWITTER

LOOOOOOOVE LIFE

     "I am TOO blessed to be stressed!"  Honestly, I just love my family, my friends, my loved ones....just EVERYTHING!  Whenever I feel that things are down, or going in the negative direction, I really just call up to HIM, it makes me feel SO much better and much more relaxed, and I KNOW that he will take care of it all!  I just don't ever see it becoming SO BAD to where one would not want to enjoy life and the wonderful things that come with it.

     I thank HIM for my family, they are ALWAYS there for me NO MATTER what, and I can always come back home, if EVER things got that bad.  We always have a GREAT time together, my dad's a big kid, my brother is HILARIOUS, and my mom I just love how no matter HOW old I get, she STILL wants to have a Girl's Day and just be around me!  My friends, my TRUE friends, which I can count on one hand (mom always said that's how it should be) always brighten up my day no matter what may be wrong.  We have the best time no matter what we're doing, having a blast laughing at the most minute things, but it's funny because it's US and we're just goofy.  And then there's the love of my life, my heart, I am SO blessed to have him in my life, my man.  We have connected in so many ways and it truly is fate that we be together, through the good and the bad, and I truly thank God for him, love you hunny!
     To have these WONDERFUL things in life, the material things really don't matter, and I wish that some people would realize that.  Everything happens for a reason, HE will bless you on HIS time not yours, just stay on bended knee and have faith, and all things will be alright, I PROMISE!  You have to go through the bad, the trials and tribulations, to get to the good, the blessings, know this!  I just felt the need to express this to you guys....HE has a plan for you and he'll NEVER lead you to harm!

I see the similarities

"Cars are like women! They need to be gassed up, washed, matching shoes w/ the outfit & the usual under the hood maintenance!"

EXPENSIVE!!!

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"I love you takes 3 seconds to say, 3 hours to explain, & a lifetime to prove"

Rev. Run ALWAYS gives that wisdom...

Everyone Can't Be In Your Front Row

a good friend once told me....

Life is a theater so invite your audiences carefully. Not everyone is holy enough & healthy enough to have a FRONT ROW seat in our lives.

There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go, or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going-anywhere relationships, friendships, fellowships & family!

Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention to: Which ones lift & which ones lean? Which ones encourage & which ones discourage?

Which ones are on a path of growth uphill & which ones are just going downhill?

When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones always have drama or don't really understand, know & appreciate you & the gift that lies within you?

Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

The more you seek God & the things of God, the more you seek quality, the more you seek not just the hand of God but the face of God, the more you seek things honorable, the more you seek growth, peace of mind, love & truth around you, the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the FRONT ROW & who should be moved to the balcony of your life.

Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

You cannot change the people around you...but you can change the people you are around! Ask God for wisdom & discernment & choose wisely the people who sit in the FRONT ROW of your life. Remember that FRONT ROW seats are for special and deserving people & those who sit in your FRONT ROW should be chosen carefully.

Everyone Can't be in Your FRONT ROW.

it looks good on YOU

 “The best color in the whole world, is the one that looks good, on you!”

 –Coco Chanel

HAPPY BIRTHDAY HOVA!

"The Best Rapper Alive" hit the big 4-0 today...Poppin' bottles ALL WEEKEDND I'm sure!

"...How you get so fly? From not being afraid to fall out the sky..." -Jay-Z

The ONLY way to overcome fear is to face it

You're a MAN! Dress like it....

Morehouse College is not playin' NO games...do you HEAR me?!

Administration is preparing to enact a DRESS CODE (much needed) later this month...the college's newspaper, The Maroon Tiger, states that the dress code will be called "Appropriate Attire Policy"...Hip Hop Wired has more...

because this (see below) is just a H.A.M.....Hot A** Mess!

I mean WHY would you want to be pulling @ your pants ALL day?!

pic courtesy of Flickr

Chivalry is NOT dead!

scrolling through ConcreteLoop and I see they've posted something about this book BEREOLAESQUE: The Contemporary Gentleman & Etiquette Book for the Urban Sophisticate by 27-year-old Enitan O. Bereola II (hence the title BEREOLAESQUE....he's a GENTLEMAN ladies!)

Just from what I read about the book, it's basically trying to teach that scrub, thug, triflin', no good BOY how to straighten up, fly right, have some manners, pull up your pants and present yourself in a chivalrous way, like a MAN should do....alriiiight!

In my opinion, EVERY individual of the MALE species, should go pick up a copy...nobody's perfect, and there's ALWAYS room for change ;-)

GUYS...listen up!

Every guy wants to make sure that their girl is happy, and keeps a smile on her face, right? Well, there's more to it than calling her "baby" or saying"damn you look good", you gotta say things that stay on her mind, make her believe that YOU are THE MAN, and she is YOUR GIRL. Here are the TOP 5 compliments that every woman wants to hear, TAKE NOTE...

1. You're Irreplaceable: Saying these words (with full eye contact, of course) lets the special one in your life know that you know who she is as a person and that you value her as a unique individual. Her hearing this from you showing that she's valued for more than what she looks like scores big, meaningful points.

2. You bring light into my life: Yes, it may sound a little, but just listen. Relationships can go off course when one or both partners takes for granted the contributions the other makes to their lives. Saying this shows that a man understands and remembers that a woman chooses to be with her man and opts to give her energy and time to him. Showing this appreciation is music to her ears. If the word "light" is a bit cliche, try using happiness, joy, sunshine—just say it with meaning.

3. You are perfect just the way you are: This one takes the cake! Showing that you understand and embrace this idea will touch your partner way more than superficial comments like, "That dress looks damn good on you!" (Side-Note: I like when I'm complimented on my physical appearance, as well as outfits, so...I'll take both, LoL)

4. I love your... (you pick: bright eyes, cute toes, toned arms, sleek legs, silky hair)

The key here, when saying this, is to be genuine about it. Don’t just pick any random feature. Think about it. What is your partner’s best physical attribute and why do you like it? Telling your partner this will show her you pay attention to details, and to her.

5. I am so proud of you: A big deal-breaker in any relationship can be supporting one another’s life goals or not. Paying attention to your partner’s current goals she's working hard to achieve, endear her to you for life. No matter how big or small, show your loving support for your woman. Her heart will melt then, and every time thereafter she remembers when you supported her along the way

let's all say it together, 1....2....3...AWWWWWW!

thanks YourTango