Bey & Jay....They're SO CUTE!

my FAVORITE couple was seen out in Battery Park, New York City taking an OH-SO-ROMANTIC walk...they're just  AWESOME!  I'm glad they're seen out more together, smiling, showing affection!  SIDE NOTE: Jay-Z has chicken legs LoL

WHO IS SOMAYA REECE?!

So there's this new reality show on VH1, Love & Hip Hop, comes on on Mondays 10/9 PM CST...I'm a reality show FREAK, so I'm glued to the TV when it comes on!  

The main characters are Jim Jones & his girlfriend Chrissy, she's the fiesty, aggressive, "down for her man" one, then there's Emily B., Fabolous' girlfriend/stylist, and last but not least Olivia, former 1st lady of G-Unit, and MS. SOMAYA REECE, up & coming rapper/new girl & Joe Budden's ex : )

Her situation is, she's tryna get out there in the rap game, I mean just like any other aspiring superstar.  Well, the problem is that she wants to work with Jim Jones, and Jim's girl Chrissy REALLY doesn't like that AT ALL.  In MY opinion, I think Chrissy is just nervous as to how JIM will react to being in a studio, ALONE, with a pretty woman.  I think it has a lot to do with insecurity on Chrissy's part.  I'm sure a lot of people disagree with me on that, but that's what I'm sticking with.

Some people's thoughts are that Chrissy is right for acting the way she does around Somaya.  And that way is messy, confrontational, loud, threatening, attitude that is SO un-called for.  Some say that they would act the same way that Chrissy would act, but I think it's just a LITTLE too over-protective.  I THINK that if Somaya wanted Jim, she could have him, cause at the end of the day, he's still a MAN...BUT of course, Chrissy doesn't want to get on her man Jim, oh NOOOOO, they always want to get on the woman.  I mean Somaya is a big, sexy woman, she's not ugly to me, at least, except for that bottom row of teeth, mixed with that top row of Porcelain veneers LoL!   

ANYWAYS....she's just tryna get into the music industry, well further into it, so you use what you have, and that source is Jim, POINT BLANK.  Chrissy I think is seeing it two ways:  Somaya is not a Nicki Minaj or a Lil' Kim, FAR from it, and Chrissy sees her working with Jim as a FAIL, because she's not that good, and it'll fukk with Jim's money, which is HER money, and their way of living.  Second, once again, Jim is working with a woman, some sort of a sex/video vixen, so of course her guard is going to be up, and she's going to be protective of Jim.  

OVERALL, so far on the show, Somaya is just trying to get her name and her voice out there, that is IT.  Now, I don't know what future episodes hold, but for now, I'm TEAM SOMAYA REECE LoL

Like I said, I LOVE these two!

MTV Shows

Wiz Khalifa & Amber Rose...SO CUTE!

I absolutely ADORE these two together...they really do MESH well, in MY opinion

two VERY outgoing, extroverted, crazy people TOGETHER...

I believe they made their FIRST appearance TOGETHER at The MTVu's Woodie Awards at the SXSW Festival in Austin, TX...I'm gonna make it to that AWESOMENESS one day!

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NEW VIDEO: Wale "The BreakUp Song"

If you didn't notice, Wale went "cute movie" on the theme of the video...

he used the idea behind the movie "500 Days of Summer" which I happen to LOVE!

Wale is GENIUS when it comes to lyrics, and this song REALLY speaks the truth : )

Ode to my ex....SORTA

Here's a little story I've gotta tell
'Bout this boy I know so well
Back in the day was cool and all
Fell in love, I fell in love
Thought he was the one for me
Other boys I could not see
And look what happened to our love
I'm like how could it be?

It should have been me and you
It could have been you and me
But boy you broke my heart and now I'm standing there
It should have been me and you
It could have been you and me
Now all I got are these photographs

All I've got, all I've got
All I've got are these photographs
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you

Now baby it's killing me
I'm saying it's killing me
The fact that you ain't around
Baby I'm falling down
I need me a remedy
Been looking for remedies
I need you to be around
Baby I'm hurting now
I know you're a better man
When I was your girl
This land is a better land
When you're in my world
Today will be better babe
If it were like yesterday
So happy and lovely hey, hey, hey

All I've got, all I've got
All I've got are these photographs
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you
Got nothing without you, you, you

Got nothing without you

All I've got are these photographs
I remember when I used to make you laugh
I don't wanna be stuck in the past
But you're all that I have that I had
And I don't wanna lose what we built this far
This is me and you, you're my superstar
I'd give anything, baby here's my heart
My heart, my heart

(Will.i.am)
My heart don't stop, my heart be beating over
My loving never stop, even though that it's over
Girl I've been reminiscing when I play that Casanova
Way back when we was kissing on your grand-mama's sofa
Girl I got us lovey dovey o my photo album
I got them pictures back when I was rocking Calvin Klein
You had your GUESS jeans on looking sexy, oh no
Girl why could it not be the one?

Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't I be the one?
Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't you be the one?
Why? Why? Why?
Why couldn't you be the one?
Why? Why? Why?

All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you
All I've got, all I've got
Is nothing without you, you, you,
Is nothing without you, you, you,
Is nothing without you

All I've got, is nothing without...

All I've got, is nothing without...

All I've got, all I've got are these photographs...

but....I'm OK people, I'm HAPPY lol : )

75 Lessons That MUST Be Learned In Relationships !!!

If a man wants u, nothing can keep him away.  If he doesn't want u, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Don't force an attraction. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that? Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he doesn't want you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince. Always put yourself and your happiness first. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Like from the show Sex and the City, if he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested. Be honest and upfront. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove yourself from the situation to let him figure things out (but don't wait for him, move on). If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his family (not just mom). There's more than physical abuse, there's emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of them...get out. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within. Don't let him place rules on you that he is not willing to follow himself -- double-standard. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't have you! Don't compete with other woman, but be aware that men are attracted to what they see. If you think he is cheating, he probably is. Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying, let him go. Actions speak louder than words. Never let a man define who you are. Never rely on a man for compliments, look to yourself for that. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you are meant to be with him. To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the next time. Know that you deserve to be the number one person in the life of the No.1 person in your life. Love is a verb ... Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. NEVER give more in a relationship than you are getting out of it. Never become your man's "therapist". When actions and words conflict, believe the actions. Respond to the actions. A real healthy relationship requires two people. One person can end it - but it takes two to make it work. Don't fall for the "I'm not the loving type"...when a man loves you there is nothing in this world (within reason) that he wouldn't do for you. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Give him his space...let him go out with his boys, don't pressure him to spend time with you, You cant force a man to hang out with you. If you wouldn't allow your daughter to be with him you shouldn't. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. Never move into his mother's house. Provide financially for yourself and don't depend on anyone. Never co-sign for a man. Never believe you have the perfect guy and he is so innocent. Never spoil your man; let him spoil you. Never let a man mess up your credit. When it's time to let go; let go. Good men should be treated like good men. Don't play games. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Compatibility in educational attainment, values, beliefs, personal and career goals, are important. Never date a guy who wears color contact lens. FUNNIEST ONE!

Jersey Shore...I LOVE DRAMA!

Ok, so I have fallen in LOVE with this show this season! Last season, I REALLY didn't care for it...but judging from all the riff raff that has gone on THIS season, I'm SURE it's killing last season.  This post here is just to point out a few things that work my LAST NERVES every episode, cause they NEVER change *smh*

First is the good news....Vinny & Pauly D. are TOO CUTE!  I like Vinny cause he doesn't have all that damn gel in his head, none of that fake tanning, and he's just real calm & collected...SMOOTH OPERATOR is what I call him.  Now Pauly D., even though he is all the opposite of Vinny, tan & gel, his innocence & sarcasm are ADORABLE!  Being the baby, I think, of the group, it's just cute to me LoL!  Snooki, she cracks me UP! And the thing about it is, she's just being herself, no acting, no faking it, just being silly, crazy Snooki.  Oh & BTW...what happened to her this week? Did she go to jail or something?  I totally missed out.

Now to the "bad news"...and the Headliner: Sammie & Ron's "relationship".  It makes me sick to my stomach how DUMB Sam is, I mean it REALLY does!  How much proof does she need, to see that Ron is a dirty, jock bastard?!  J. WoWW explained it BEST: he gets drunk, makes out with numerous HOT ASS girls in the club, & then comes home, & gets in the bed with Sam, like it's routine.  CLEARLY that IS his routine...UgH!  As far as "the letter", I don't blame Snooki & J. WoWW for writing it, cause pretty much the whole damn house had given Sam enough clues, and she STILL was just like blowing it off.  And on the last episode, Snooki was saying that they did it because they're her friends and they care about her.  I see where Snooki was coming from.  I mean they were trying ANYTHING to make DUMB Sam see THE TRUTH!  Even The Situation was serious as a HEART ATTACK when he told her, and she starts that damn crying like she is SO DONE with Ron...but yet AND STILL, she's back all up under Ron like NOTHING happened.  I don't get it, I really don't!

And then! What killed ME! When J. WoWW and Sammie got into the fight, Ron decides to rack up his cool points and boost Sam's head up, by telling her she WHOOPED J. WoWW's ass...PUH-LEASE!  J. WoWW had Sammie on the ground a GOOD minute, HILARIOUS!  And Sammie ate up EVERY BIT of that mess that Ron was feeding her *smh*...and ONCE AGAIN, they're all lovey dovey again, LmAO! I GUESS...

Like J. WoWW said...Sammie is going to see the truth, it's going to come out...OH PLEASE BELIEVE! And when it does, Sammie is going to be embarrassed ONCE AGAIN, and cry, and feel SO STUPID. And you know what I'm going to do?!

LAUGH MY ASS OFF!

Lebron to Savannah: "Here's $25 MILLION boo...SSSSHHHH!"

So, my "gasping news" for the week...
"King James" will pay his girlfriend/baby mamma
$25 MILLION to keep her mouth SHUT to the public if they EVER break up (Lord forbid)!  And to my knowledge, well what I believe, I don't THINK that includes child support (TWO kids).  It is in fact MUCH BETTER than giving her half.

When I first heard this, the FIRST thing that popped in my head was "What does Mr. James have to hide?!' *side eye*
Or maybe IF they DO break up, I wouldn't be surprised if she became that bitter, angry, black woman who would spill ALL of their "family secrets" in some TELL-ALL book...

What do Y'ALL think? Would you accept this "agreement"?

i love you

OmG...LOOK! Trey Songz "Can't Be Friends"

Simple...and yet STILL so damn sexy!

I can say "He can SO get it!" with even STRONGER emphasis now.

This video just SCREAMS the drama that love can cause you to display.

I FELT Trey's emotions, his EVERY move, his EVERY word...

And can we PLEASE give "HONORABLE MENTION" to that BODY of his!

On top of ALL of this, this HAS TO BE one of my FAVORITE songs by Trey...

reminds me of "Our" relationship, and HE knows who he is ; )

My Girl Amerie & HER MAN!

my girl, Ms. Amerie, & her fiance/manager Lenny Nicholson

...they're SO CUTE!

thoughts I love...

"The same way you got him, is the same way he'll leave


 you.  Home wrecking, cheating etc."


"If he wants you nothing will stop him. If he doesn't want you nothing will change that!"

"Sometimes, two people have to fall apart to realize how 

much they need to fall back together."

  

"There's always that one person that we can never let go and the one who's worth our tears."

i miss you

“I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when I lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with eachother; for those were some of the best times of my life.”


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Reminds me of...

i love this song...I really do! It's so serene & calm & lovely

It makes me think of love, break up just to make up...lovers quarrels.

A couple sitting at a diner, sharing a piece of pie...and they can't stop looking into each others eyes.

They can't stop laughing with each other, giggling at the smallest things that each other do.

just PLAIN, SIMPLE love

LaLa & Carmelo FINALLY Tie The Knot!

i LOVE the turn-around pose! 

They look SO happy, AWWWWWW! 

I'm not really big on the navy tux though...but they both look GORGEOUS!

Can Kim's boobies BREATHE?!  Those are some bad ass "Chrissy Lou's" though!

I'm LOVING Serena's hair..."long hair DON'T care!"

Ms. Ciara...."Uh Huuuuuuh!"

...and HOPEFULLY the next Power Couple to walk down the aisle...

Lebron "King" James & his sweetheart Savannah

AND...New Orleans Hornets Point Guard Chris "CP3" Paul!

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I SO Feel You Jazmine!!!

she NEVER disappoints me...

NEW COUPLE ALERT!!!!

Ms. Kim Kardashian & Miles Austin of MY Dallas Cowboys....I don't know about this one.  I know that she is DEFINITELY not his type.  He usually goes for the blonde-haired, blue-eyed, white girls...but HEY, sometimes you gotta step outside the box, cause Kim IS a GORGEOUS woman!

Side Note:  Kim better be careful kissing Mr. Miles, cause that dude has teeth GALORE, LMAO!

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Look what KHLOE bought her BABY Lamar!

A freakin' BRAND NEW 2010 Rolls-Royce drop-top coupe!!!...

WHITE on WHITE, BEAUTIFUL!

And A LOT of people doubted that Khloe bought the $443,000 car with her OWN money, so this is what SHE had to say, or this is what she TWEETED:

"People r so pathetic,"..."Y would I give some1 a gift w/ their money? That's lame. I actually make my own money. Shocking I know. Stop hating!"

*two snaps & a twirl* to that, LMAO!

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that's how it'll be sometimes...

"Sucks when the person you want 

doesn't want you back. 

Or they do want you, 

but they can't commit to you."

my girl Ms. Lily was speakin' it on Twitter...

Follow her @bleedforfashion

LOVE her www.bleedforfashion.com