Friday, August 7, 2009

GUYS...listen up!

Every guy wants to make sure that their girl is happy, and keeps a smile on her face, right? Well, there's more to it than calling her "baby" or saying"damn you look good", you gotta say things that stay on her mind, make her believe that YOU are THE MAN, and she is YOUR GIRL. Here are the TOP 5 compliments that every woman wants to hear, TAKE NOTE...

1. You're Irreplaceable: Saying these words (with full eye contact, of course) lets the special one in your life know that you know who she is as a person and that you value her as a unique individual. Her hearing this from you showing that she's valued for more than what she looks like scores big, meaningful points.

2. You bring light into my life: Yes, it may sound a little, but just listen. Relationships can go off course when one or both partners takes for granted the contributions the other makes to their lives. Saying this shows that a man understands and remembers that a woman chooses to be with her man and opts to give her energy and time to him. Showing this appreciation is music to her ears. If the word "light" is a bit cliche, try using happiness, joy, sunshine—just say it with meaning.

3. You are perfect just the way you are: This one takes the cake! Showing that you understand and embrace this idea will touch your partner way more than superficial comments like, "That dress looks damn good on you!" (Side-Note: I like when I'm complimented on my physical appearance, as well as outfits, so...I'll take both, LoL)

4. I love your... (you pick: bright eyes, cute toes, toned arms, sleek legs, silky hair)
The key here, when saying this, is to be genuine about it. Don’t just pick any random feature. Think about it. What is your partner’s best physical attribute and why do you like it? Telling your partner this will show her you pay attention to details, and to her.

5. I am so proud of you: A big deal-breaker in any relationship can be supporting one another’s life goals or not. Paying attention to your partner’s current goals she's working hard to achieve, endear her to you for life. No matter how big or small, show your loving support for your woman. Her heart will melt then, and every time thereafter she remembers when you supported her along the way

let's all say it together, 1....2....3...AWWWWWW!

thanks YourTango

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