Monday, November 16, 2009

this REALLY hit home


I had to post this! It made me think of some of the SAME experiences that I went through at a young age.
Not necessarily the prostitution, BUT the physical & mental abuse.
I was young and "in love" & he was my first love, so I always thought that everything that he did, good or bad, was OK.
Well, I want to say that no matter what, it is NOT ok for a woman to endure this kind of pain!
I hear this all the time.."but he loves me!"
Sweetie, if he loved you, he would NEVER put his hands on you!
He would cherish & kiss the ground that you walk on.
Don't ever settle for less in life, you are worth SO MUCH MORE!
you as a STRONG WOMAN, you do not have to take & deal with ANYTHING that you don't want to...
I have learned from my mistakes, and it took a while for me to get back to trusting & even getting close to a man, but I am SO much better now.
I just thought that I would speak my mind and just vent a little...
thank y'all =)


5 comments:

Amanda said...

WOW!! I watched the video and read your post, and it bought tears to my eyes...remembering myself being in the same exact position...not to long ago! It me along time to realize that i deserved better and that was the correct way to be treated...it was crazy too becasue my father was abuse to my mother so I always promised I would never have a man like that...but unfotunately I had multiple!

Katlynne LaSalle said...

I'm so glad you posted this, Beauty! and so pleased that you were strong enough to value yourself, love yourself, and never let a man put his hands on you in anger!!

Thank you so much for your constant devotion to me, my novel, and my site...I don't want to think where I'd be without you!!!

Kelly Nina Kiyyah said...

*CLAPPING*
Well said! Kudos to you for preaching that cuz way too many women make and live this mistake. Great words of wisdom.

~Nina of *AF*

MilesPerHour said...

The things that anger me the most in life revolve around abuse. I am a very quiet person but seeing it brings out a rage within me. Noone deserves to be a victim of it.

T-Charry said...

thank you ALL for reading this & being there for me, it was REALLY important for me to speak on it after I saw this video...Y'all are all the BEST & I really do feel the love & the support =)

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